Why Her?

I emailed C today. She's still in bad shape. Tomorrow would have been her 2 year anniversary with the now ex. What do I tell her? How do I let her know that everything will be okay when I've never been in her shoes? I try to be a good friend and just let her know I'm there for her. But I miss my friend. I want her back. I miss her bubliness and her sunshine. I want her to see past tomorrow. But her ex man sucks. And for today, in her mind all men are assholes. I don't have words to make her feel differently.